So I was on youtube and found a new song byMichelle Branch. I've always wondered where Michelle Branch disappeared to ever since "Goodbye to You" and "All You Wanted"
Michelle Branch- Sooner or Later
Lipstick, pretty face
And maybe you'll notice something
Different about me, different about me
Yeah you talk talk all you want
You pour your heart out
But you never do see, you never do see me
You, you never see me standing right in front of you....
....I'm your shoulder
I'm the quick drive over
Tryin to fix your stuff
Well I give up
I can't wait forever for you
Sooner or later
You're gonna come around
You'll be sorry
When you figure out
That I was always
Everything that you needed
Sooner or later
You're gonna wish you had me
Yeah you're gonna wish you had me
Oh you're gonna wish me back so bad, so bad
Oh well it's a little too late for that
And going back to my oldies :)
Heather Headley- I Wish I Wasn't
When you touch me my heart melts
And everything you did wrong I forget
So you play me and take advantage
Of the love that I feel for you
Why you wanna hurt me so bad
I believed in you thats why Im so mad
Now Im drowning in disappointment, and its hard for me to even look at you
I wish that you were home
Holding me tight in your arms ooh baby
I wish I could go back
To the day before we met and skip my regret
Said you care about me, but from what I see
I aint feeling that, so I disagree
Gave you all my love and understanding and you treated me like your enemy
So leave me alone, dont want nothing from you
Just go back where you came from this house is no longer your home
You can not never come no more...
...I hear you knocking at my door again
Im wondering should I let you in
I open up the door and see the flowers for me so beautiful in your hands
You start begging me to take you back,
Ive always been a sucker for romance
And before you know it I can see, youre all over me
Oh no here I go again
I wish I wasnt in love with you so you couldnt hurt me
I think in general, when you like someone, you want to believe that they will change. And you hear all these stories about how when a guy meets the right girl, they will change for her. Every girl wants to believe that they are the right girl, but you have to admit to yourself one day that you are not the right girl for every guy, just like how not every guy is the right guy for you. And like in the movie "He's Just Not That Into You" says, those girls that change guys are the exception hence a lot of the time you are the rule, not the exception. So I guess this explains the whole going back to the scumbag phenomenon.
Also, I think that girls are blinded by the idea that material things reflect a guy's feelings as in the more he buys you, the more he cares about you. Or maybe this is actually the guy's way of showing that he is guilty for doing something? I mean buying you things is great but if he isn't spending that much time with you.... well lets just say if a guy cares for you he'll want to spend time with you. I was watching the Tyra Show and they were talking about Steve Harvey's new book, Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man which I think I talked about before. Even though I think that these self help dating books can also be a downfall to some women, Steve Harvey made an interesting point about a guy's way of showing he cares through the three P's. Profess, Provide and Protect. If he cares about you, by 6 months he'll have a title for you when he introduces you to other people. I think the book was targeted towards people in their late 20s and 30s as opposed to the college dating scene, so I think the 6 month rule is actually less than... But anyways thats besides the point; Its pretty true, he wants to mark his territory when hes introducing you to his guy friends by saying something like "This is my girlfriend/girl/wifey/baby... SOMETHING besides friends. Provide refers to money wise and time wise and protect is pretty self explanitory.
Steve Harvey also has this thing called the 90 day rule in which a guy cant recieve any benefits until he's still hanging around after 90 days and you still think hes a good guy. I think this is pretty good advice, because if he really is interested in you, he'll wait. Besides, you know the whole chasing thing? Imagine having to chase for 90 days, how good its going to be? Haha.
So theres only two and half weeks left until school starts... =l omg. Ok I have so much to do until school starts! :(
I had a lot of time to think this summer about my love life, social life, well I guess life in general. And I realized that I want to be more outgoing. There are so many things I haven't done experience wise that I feel like I havent done anything this year. I want to go hiking on the campus hills (the closest thing to hiking I got to was "hiking" to class and man some of those hikes were killer!!). I have a few other back to school resolutions but I talk about them all the time so it might reveal my identity :P
Well I'm going to go wash my troubles away :D
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